Unit economics
Grouping customers by when they arrived and following each group separately, so that changes over time are visible instead of averaged away.
A cohort is everyone who started in the same period. Following them separately is the only way to tell whether the product improved or the mix changed: a company that starts buying cheaper traffic will show worsening blended retention even if every cohort behaves exactly as before, and a company that improved its onboarding will show it in the newest cohorts first while the blended number lags for months.
The table is read in two directions. Down a column is the effect of tenure — how any cohort behaves at month three. Across a row is the effect of calendar time — what happened to everyone in March. A number that moves down a column is a product fact; a number that moves across a row is usually an operational one.
Blended metrics change whenever the mix changes, which on a growing business is constantly. Most reported improvements in retention are composition effects, and most reported declines are the arrival of a cheaper channel rather than a worse product.
The definitions are the easy part. Whether the figure on your dashboard was computed this way is a different question, and usually the more expensive one.